Wednesday, June 28, 2006

okay, I'm going to bed at 11:10 tonight... that's better than the last couple of nights.

today I did some work with Art. It went well.

Remember to not act completely committed with your body language. My frame is, hi what's up? are you friendly? etc.

speek loud! be confident cause all women want you!work your magic!

think of some great openers and write them down!

1. Have you ever been on a blind date?

Done:
-booked a hostel.

To do:
-pay american eagle credit card
-cash vector check

Tuesday, June 27, 2006

done:
-bought WebTicket (metro train to grand central) for month of July
-bought 1 adshare from Rachel Long to advertise my website
-bought round trip ticket for greyhound
-checked budget... right on the edge

I just got a check from Vector for like $25 for doing nothing cause one of my clients went ahead and ordered some more Cutco products through Cutco... probably over the phone or the internet or something... cool deal!

I'm doing the stylelife challenge at http://www.stylelife.com/ join it up!

Habits to change:
-Go to sleep earlier. 9:30 PM sharp!
-Work out 3 x per week. Fri, Sun, Tues.
-Tell 5 people a day to join website.

To do:
-Reserve hostel rooms and cancel hotel stay.
-cash vector check.
-get loan from bank and start LLI.

Remember:
All women want me! All men want to be me.
All women are rediculously sexually attracted to me.
All women are dying to have sex with me and rub their pussys all over my face.

I'm a catch!
Everybody respects me. Everybody looks up to me.
There's always a way.

Monday, June 26, 2006

dude, if you ever here a girl say, "I don't normally do this." You know you're doing something right.

To do:
-Buy WebTicket
-Buy adshares
-Sign up for greyhound bus
-Check budget

Sunday, June 25, 2006

Oh, I remember now. While I was brushing my teeth, I remember I was thinking that if I just convinced myself that being good with women really isn't that important. Like who cares? Then I could get on with the more important things in my life. Cause meeting women really isn't that important. Let's move on. I want to get rich!

After viewing AM Part II - III

That part where Style says some of the pebbles...

OMG!!!! I totally get flirting now! It's like you're challenging the girl. Verbal sparing, push-pull... Shit...

Here are some examples...

"Lauren, I eat girls like you for breakfast!" Said enthusiastically and with a big smile on your face. I practiced in the mirror to make sure I pull it off playfully and fun and not as threatening. This line is especially good after she challenges you.

I can remember a good time that I could've used it earlier. As I was leaving a set, one of the girls (all being around age 27 compared to my age 21) said, "Come back in 10 years." I just responded with yeah, and a pound. But, now I can see that responding with a chuckle and saying, "What's your name again?" (I had forgotten her name and also creates a pull... cause snapping back at her comment right away could have created some unwanted adversity.) Then, after she were to tell me her name I could've responded with the above line: "[Her name], I eat girls like you for breakfast!"

Then, if she retaliated, saying she eats guys like me for lunch, I'd say, "Well, I'm full... so, don't get all scared."

It's all about challenging them... like, "you got nothing!" "you think you hot shit with your pumps? Uhun missy! You best get yourself some REAL pumps. Some nice rebok pumps!"

Then you just be like, "aight lets take this outside" then pull her away from her friends.

Other lines that escalate flirting are: "I'd break your heart and end up hooking up with your friends."

If she's really retaliating good, you can be like, "Oh, you are trouble! I can't talk to you. You're the girl that my mom's been warning me of this whole time."

That's my frame now. I eat girls like you for breakfast! haha. Girls got nothing. What's a girl that looks good... she just got lucky in the gene pool... so what? what does she really got going for her? good looks alone are not enough! I need a woman with good looks and a cool personality. someone who can joke around and shit.

Sometimes, instead of playing back, girls try to deny your accusations. If they ever denied something I was just joking around about, I now know that they were taking me seriously and I must've not smiled enough ect... here's the thing though... if they were like, "oh, no I'm not that much trouble..." or they denied any of my (meant-to-be) playful accusations I used to say, "oh, okay, okay..." (Almost like I was apologizing for having said what I said... But that's totally joining their frame!!! and being wussy!) Now, I say, "Yeah... suurrree..." etc. and hold my frame. If they say, "oh, no I'm not that much trouble," I can say... "Yeah... surrree... look at that. you're already lying to me already. that's trouble right there lady!"

Basically, if girls give you any kind of negative response, hold your frame. Bust on them even more. Hold it. Don't switch to their frame.

I want to get great at flirting in a joking way. I totally understand this now. If you're comfortable when you're poking fun and you just don't care... you're money. You have to be funny though. She has to be smiling. Calibrate it!

Also, obviously, flirt sparingly. all you need to do it is like once and you've sparked it. then let her spark it at a later time. If you're doing all the flirting that's not good.... obv...

shit... this is money...

Aight, I'm out. Happy Pimpin.

P.S. There was something else I was thinking about today in the car ride to drop off a audio program at the library. What was it? hmmm... I'll remember it later... I have to go to bed now.

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